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I wanted to start my day with a positive thought of gratitude and purchased the Affirmators! 50 Affirmation Cards to Help You Help Yourself – without the Self-Helpy-Ness! . This was a great way for me to provoke a positive internal conversation. The recent decision in transitioning to intuitive eating (discussed in the 3rd EP of Episode of “In My Skin”) was perfectly supported by the first card. As I soaked in the message of this card, I thought about my past accomplishments and the meaning of perseverance.
Three tips that I’ve followed to persevere in Fitness and in Life!
It can be extremely difficult to stay optimistic at times. If fact, it can feel nearly impossible to not want to throw in the towel and give up and there is nothing wrong with that. But it is important to circle back to the goal, get back on your positive path and keep pushing forward. This could be spending the time to yourself and journaling, going for a walk on your favorite trail or talking with your biggest cheerleader to help you put things into perspective. Either way, you may end a day in a bad mood but find a way that works for you to start the new day funky fresh dressed to impress and ready to party!
Embrace the “Fails”
In a moment of “failure” or what we consider to be a failure, we assume that this is the end all be all, but it’s not. It’s not a fail, it’s a setback. A setback isn’t there to ruin yourself esteem and give you the opportunity to beat yourself up. A setback creates the opportunity to analyze your plan, reassess your goals and create a different plan. After you get over the disappointment of your setback, find the lesson and use it to propel you forward.
Stop and Smell the Roses
It’s extremely easy to get caught up in your setbacks and the plan. Everything about this can consume you and you are determined to make shit happen! And while this is great, don’t forget to stop and smell and the roses! Take a look around you and celebrate all the small victories you have accomplished. Reflect back to when you first started on the fitness journey and compare that to where you are now. Are you 10lbs lighter? Are you curling 20lbs instead of the 10bs you started with? Have you cut back on the sugar? You may not be where you want to be but these are major milestones to celebrate. So while you focus on the path to success, don’t forget to stop and smell the roses no matter how small they are!
“It seems you’re on a massive journey right now…the mountain you are climbing is huge and formidable, but so is your ability to climb it.”
Complain all you want, get back on your path and find those moments where you can enjoy the ride. The path won’t always be bumpy but you won’t know that if you quit. So Persevere my friends, you’re almost there!
If you liked this article, check out You Don’t Get to Quit and 4 Ways To Stay Motivated When the Scale Stops Moving.
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Calories 113 | 14g Protein | 12g Carbohydrates | 1g Fat
Makes 12 Muffins (1 Muffin Per Serving)
The original recipe came from The Shredded Chef: 120 Recipes for Building Muscle, Getting Lean, and Staying Healthy (Second Edition)(The Build Healthy Muscle Series). The original muffin called for Sweet Potatoes and chocolate or vanilla protein powder.* I changed it up a bit and it came out great, but I know you won’t be disappointed however you make it!
- 2 medium size yams*, cooked and peeled
- 1/2 cup of old-fashion oats
- 2 scoops of Dymatize Nutrition Iso 100 Whey Protein Powder, Cookies and Cream*
- 2 scoops of Jarrow Formulas Optimal Plant Proteins*
- 1 tablespoon of stevia or other sugar alternative
- 2 egg whites
- 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
- 1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
- 1 teaspoon baking powder
- Preheat the over to 350 degrees
- In a blender or food processor, add all of the ingredients and blend until smooth.
- Lightly coat a nonstick muffin pan with cooking spray and pour in the mixture. Bake for about 20 minutes or until cooked. The top will be golden and the toothpick inserted in the middle should come out clean. Let them sit before removing from the pan.
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We often hear that quote in a relationship with other people, but how about with ourselves?
We’re all hard on ourselves and we set these expectations of ourselves that tend to lead us to failure and disappointment. I don’t believe in thinking small. In fact, the only way I believe you can achieve your best is by setting high goals. However, sometimes we can’t reach those goals due to factors beyond our control. Sometimes we can reach those goals but the time frame is unrealistic.
In moments like these, it’s ok to fail and to be disappointed. It’s ok to want this high goal and to keep working at it, but it’s not ok to compare yourself to this person you have in your head that would have reached that goal if she was different. So you didn’t succeed? Get the fuck up and keep trying.
The person you have in your head that “could” have done it, isn’t the person you really are today. It doesn’t mean you can’t be and it doesn’t mean you won’t be, it just means this isn’t reality. Stop dwelling on your imagination and use the energy that is beating yourself up and convert it into something to push you forward.
Think Big. Be Determined. Work Hard. Be Disappointed. Feel Unsatisfied & Keep Fuckin’ Going!
Transitioning from the daily life of a Personal Trainer to a “civilian” has been quite comfortable. Almost too comfortable; I never realized what it was like to be on the other end of the trainer/client relationship.
There was a time I worked a regular 9-5, hated my job, always ate take out and punished myself with long runs. When I first started working out it was for my first bikini show. With about 2 months left of my employement, I quit my job and stayed unemployed for about a year. At this time I was spending my days doing what I love the most; blogging and show prep. Then after my show, I got my NASM Certification and began working as a trainer. I never had this real adjustment period of learning how to live this active lifestyle and work in an office.
Now don’t let it confuse you, just because you work as a Personal Trainer it doesn’t mean you get paid to work out. I spent many days sleeping 5 hours, barely eating and forcing myself through a workout. My workouts were still important to me so I always made the time no matter how busy my day was.
Immediately after my second show, I started working at a desk. This time I enjoyed what I did, the people I worked with and a lot of people in the office were fitness minded, unlike my previous office job experience. This made it easier to socially transition but just because we are a fitness company it didn’t take away the junk food office environment. I started my employment there standing at my desk at least 6 hours a day and sticking to all of my prepped food. Seeing all the free delicious food around didn’t phase me because I always knew it would be there tomorrow. My only “struggle” at this time was trying to get in my 10,000 steps. I use to get 14,000 as a Trainer and now I’m barely breaking 4k, but that was able to be resolved with some after work cardio.
Slowly but surely, I began to sat just a little bit more and I snacked just a little bit more ending up taking over my day. The food was there so I ate it; my chair was there so I sat. Cardio stopped being a concern and caffeine ended up being an all day thing. The gym was the one thing that never changed because this life was too important to for me to ever give up. To be honest, I was thankful for my personal time back so no matter how tired I felt, I still went. I could finally work out for me again!
I realized changing your unhealthy lifestyle into a healthy one can be difficult and life would be much easier if you could take all the temptations away distracting you into being naturally healthy. But since that isn’t the case that means you’ll have to work and it will be hard. I suggest starting with one major goal; sure, you can pick a handful of things you want to change like going to the gym three times a week, missing the afternoon snack of office cookies and standing half your day at your desk, but just pick one to focus on. Work on the others but give yourself credit if you fail at it.
I’ve been putting all my energy into cutting the caffeine but cutting my sugar is in the back of my head. I give myself a break if I decide to eat the M&Ms as long as I’m on point with my caffeine. Once I am confident with that then I’ll move on the next goal. Focusing on the one major goal has given me the chance to build my confidence back up and with every day that goes by it gets easier and I feel better. I definitely got a dose of the office reality but it’s ok. I’ll get my routine back.